Day #19: Hear All Voices
Perfect Practice

Welcome to Day 19 of the 30-Day Say It Skillfully Challenge! Today's challenge steps out of teaching mode and straight into real-world application. Below is a common scenario many professionals encounter—one that tests your instincts, judgment, and timing.   

Today's Challenge Scenario: 

You're sitting in a meeting that feels...meaningless. The agenda is vague. The conversation circles the same points. No clear decisions are being made, and no next steps are emerging. People are talking but nothing is actually moving forward. Seriously people unplug by "looking down and doing email!" You glance at the clock and realize this meeting could easily continue for another 30 minutes this way. You sense others feel it too, yet no one says anything. Speaking up might feel awkward, disruptive, or like you're calling out the meeting itself.  

What do you do?  

Instead of disengaging (doing email) or silently enduring the meeting, try redirecting it with purpose. A simple, respectful intervention could sound like: "Can I pause us for a moment? What outcome are we hoping to achieve in the next 10 minutes?" 

Why this works: Meaningless meetings often persist not because people don't care but because no one takes responsibility for steering them. When someone respectfully names the gap—purpose, decision, or next steps—the room often shifts immediately. Remember: you're not being difficult. You're being helpful. 

Skillful communication isn't only about what we say; it's about when we intervene and what we make possible for others. When you help a group refocus, you give everyone their time and attention back.     

Cheering for you to make the most of this 30-day challenge—whether you're recommitting to a resolution, trying something new, or simply choosing to turn over a fresh leaf this year. One small step today can change how you show up all year long. You've got this!