Day #28: Back to the Basics Part I
Me-You-We Check-In

Welcome to Day 28 of the 30-Day Say It Skillfully Challenge! You're in the home stretch! Today, we circle back to the cornerstone framework of skillful communication: Me-You-We. 

Frameworks work when they become personal. You don't necessarily need to "do all three" perfectly every conversation. The real win is knowing when a particular component is needed. And it can help to know your default–where you naturally excel–and to notice where you tend to underuse a part of the framework, especially when things get fast, tense, or uncertain. When pressure rises, most people revert to their habits. Me-You-We gives you a steady way to reset.

Today's Challenge: Take five quiet minutes and do a Me-You-We self-audit. Ask yourself: "What do I most excel at right now? Where do I need the most growth?" 
Then, choose one small experiment for the next conversation you have today:

• If your growth edge is Me, focus on how you show up (monitor your energy, tone, and intent).

• If it's You, ask one more question than you normally would.

• If it's We, name alignment: "Let me check we're on the same page about this."

What shifted when you chose a different "gear" than your default? What did it reveal about where you're growing (and where you might need more practice)?  

Cheering for you to make the most of this 30-day challenge–whether you're recommitting to a resolution, trying something new, or simply choosing to turn over a fresh leaf this year. One small step today can change how you show up all year long. You've got this!